How To End An Affair
A. Whether entering into this affair was planed or by chance you’re ready to get out with as minimal pain as possible and certainly without revealing any aspect of it. Almost as if it never happened.
B. Whether it’s to safeguard your spouse & family or just to get away from a dangerous lover you are ready to use any means necessary within the law & within reason. Nothing is too drastic. Sometimes drastic/shocking actions help springboard your exit. Lastly
C. since there are infinite possible angles and everyone’s situation is unique we can only offer some ideas assuming you’ve followed as much of this site’s advice as possible. It’s up to you to shape them to your needs. All is fair in love and war.
* The easiest avenue and the one rarely taken is when it’s their idea. Often times a lover will become frustrated with a situation and decide they want to move on. If this is where you are, get out now!!! It will never be served up this easy for you again. Take your winnings and the fun you’ve had and cash out now.
* Most affairs begin in the workplace. This is natural because you spend so much time everyday with your co-worker/lover. In this case start by changing jobs. This can be very easy or very difficult.
The key here is to create an immediate separation. This in no way ends the affair but creating that gap of time together is the first step. Once that’s in place you can utilize any of the other suggestions in this section.
* Religion. While this maybe an extremely sensitive angle for some, that doesn’t stop it from being an extremely useful one. No matter what side of the fence you’re on when it comes to Religion, a person’s beliefs are they’re liabilities; and like all good liabilities they can be exploited.
Feel free for the sake of your exit cover to switch faiths, loose faith, adopt a faith, site faith incompatibilities, etc. This can also tie in well to any other excuses with the line “It must not have been meant to be.” That’s such a good one… You’d be surprised how much weight that can carry.
* Sexual orientation. If you’re straight, become gay. If you’re gay become straight? If you’re Bi sexual, find Catholicism and become a priest / nun and adopt abstinence. These are all for the sake of your exist cover obviously.
I’m not at all suggesting you take these actions literally but for the sake of your lover you need to portray that you most certainly are.
* Have a near death experience. Fake a heart attack a freak accident. Anything that may have “cleared your mind and perspective”. Use this as a exit avenue.
* Loose your mind. Pretend to start seeing a therapist. Pretend to get on all sorts of meds. Begin forgetting things and acting insane around your lover. Site the need for intense and reclusive therapy and you must break things off.
* Amnesia. Tie this one into the freak accident story.
Basically, if you were in this affair for the fun and the thrill of it but now it threatens the things you truly hold dear then don’t be afraid to pull out all the stops. Fight tooth and nail for what you value. If you’re reading this page then to hell with what society deems appropriate.
Many times somewhere along the way you duped yourself into thinking this affair is actually what you wanted. Only to realize it truly wasn’t. Still this information could wreck your legitimate life so do everything possible not to let it.
