Tell Tale Cheating Behavior to Avoid
Below are the most common tell tale cheating signs and how to avoid them.
* Keep your mouth shut! Be extremely careful on who you trust with your secrets. It’s temping to brag about your new side relationship or conquests, don’t.
* Never give out your real phone number, especially your home number. Always use your Google voice or alternate cell number. If you’ve not done so already make sure your legit numbers are unlisted.
* Guilty conscious? Don’t begin showing extra attention to your spouse. Make sure to keep your behavior at home the same. This is common in the early stages of a new affair.
* Disinterest. After a prolonged affair interest in your legit home life lessens. Don’t let it. If you do chores around the house, make time for your children, and cook the occasional meal, continue to do so.
* Untrusting. Since you have so much to hide it will be in your nature to be untrusting towards everyone, especially your spouse. Fight this urge. Don’t question every little thing they do, say, places they go, etc… This is common behavior of someone with something to hide. Do your best to keep concealed tabs on your spouse and their activities. This will help soothe your anxiety.
* Never, EVER bring your lover home with you. Limit intimate knowledge of your home life as much as possible.
* At all costs avoid “physical” signs of the affair. These can be as simple as checking for hair or lipstick, or much more tell tale signs like bite marks and unexplained bruises.
* Do not go out and splurge on new clothes or accessories. This is a classic blunder.
* Don’t change your sex life at home. This includes frequency, or new / different “requests”.
* Concern about your physical state and looks is another big mistake to avoid. A driven interest in hitting the gym, new hair styles, cosmedic enhancements, etc are all tell tale signs
* After sometime of not being caught you may become overconfident. Be mindful of this and keep your guard up. Over confidence leads to sloppiness, leads to mistakes, leads to you being caught.
* When out and about with your lover steer clear of any places you frequent with your respective other. Keep your legit & secret lives separate at all times. For example don’t take your lover to you & your spouse’s favorite restaurant.
* Careful to avoid promises you do not intend to fulfill. The most common one being that you’ll be leaving your spouse for your lover. This is the most common because it’s usually the card played when your lover wants to break things off. Mind you this is probably the absolute best time to let it die off.
However it’s also the most difficult time to let it die off. Just remember once this card is played it becomes a huge liability and your exit strategy increases in difficulty 100 fold.
